Does Love and Trusts Persists at the Cost of Finding Attacks on Self Esteem?

Self Esteem and Need of Life and Soul!

There is a big question in my mind right from my conscious childhood as I was a kid with countless thoughts and ideas. For me being oversensitive and thoughtful about “Human Relationships” and the Complexities that are associated with it were monstrous. I heard at an early age that those who LOVE and Care will not damage anything to the core. This description of LOVE has never found a space in my Heart!

If someone loves you so much and cares for your well being, prosperity and success. Then why he or she would do any sort of damage. He or she must be your “guiding star”, and a shoulder to give to give you comfort of Heart, Mind and Soul. So it is not realistic according to me as I have seen various cases where I have seen the closed ones are ruining the Self Esteem and Integrity of a Person!

It is another case as if those who do damage know it intentionally or do it as an impulsive action. I am not a person who likes to live in Pessimism, and on the contrary I am always ‘Hopeful’ and try to boost Self Confidence and Positive Thinking amongst my readers and social friends. But the irony of situation is that the Bad or Negative Remarks and Actions by Immediate Family, Close Friends or Beloved hurts us more that the distant relations and people who do not take part in our lives!

So the Motivation Factor behind every “Successful Person” is the fact that they are Optimistic and live is Soulful Peace. I am not talking about acclaim at the cost of anything but I do consider that we can never ignore that fact that “Human Beings” no matter how strong they look need some comfort zones and pacifying personalities and gestures in their lives.

I wonder at times as why we do not think twice while passing out comments in our family or friend’s circle. We take advantage that we are close and the person in target will not mind. But sometimes the Heart and Soul of a Person are so sensitive that it breaks up with a single word.

So we need to spread the message of peace and love. We must try to give comfort to others with our actions and words as much as possible, and I think it must be the top priority of every person on Earth. There would be an unimaginable BLISS All Around, and we will find Worldly Heaven right here in front of us!!

I AM Living a Life of Other Being!

Life with Eternal Meaning

 I am living a life of other being

and

I know that for so long

I am a mere shadow!

I am only a Dream

and

I love LIFE that is not meant for me

Is it my Sin or My Trial?

My boundless imagination leaps my soul

To Unseen Deserts and Valleys

I feel the pains and pleasures of others

But

I feel nobody feel my pain!

I am all lost

In a mask that keeps me smiling

Pretending to be a Simple Equation

whom

Anyone can solve

But nobody knows a destination of the jigsaw route!

that

Is hard rock inside my Heart and Soul!

I love to be assign of Mystery,

But

It is mere disappearance from the world of queries

and

Showing of achievements and attainments,

I have one as my glittering blade!

So

I am living as a shadow of some other being!!

Love Your Self Esteem and Value Your Freedom of Thoughts and Actions!

Motivation and Optimism to Lead a Successful Life

It is too much overstated that each human being needs freedom of speech, action and dictation by others. But we have hardly seen anything in particular that determines the desire of human beings to give that FREEDOM to others! So it is a matter of choosing your own existence, and to fight hard battle for retaining and even boosting your Self Esteem. You can compromise on petty matters like getting low salary or increments. You can even ignore the negativity that lies in hearts and minds of others but never compromise of “Your Self Esteem”!

Once you are set to protect your personal sanctity and self-esteem then you will do it at all costs. You don’t have to be like a hard rock, to win your presence in the world around. Just be yourself and always go with your Gut Feelings. Never stop your statements that are based on Truth and cause something quite vibrating in air. Keep in mind that all positive and truthful sayings create a sense of irritation, loud anger and hatred amongst those who are never fair while dealing with others.

Having a sound Self Esteem is your real asset, and do not lose it for the sake of making someone unhappy or to hear some loud statements. It needs to be done at the right moment, and to counter everything with positivity and optimism. Do not let yourself swayed with “Emotions” and always try to be Logical and on the Ground Reality when you are presenting your case or Point of View. It is your basic right as a Human Bering on the face of the Earth. Make a simple question to yourself as if you like to be humiliated at the cost of other person’s “evil pleasures”!

I am sure that nobody wants to get any bad or insulting remarks from others, and for those crimes that he or she has never committed. So it is your basic right and in fact more of a duty to safeguard your own personal identity and your Self Esteem. It is am way to let lose your own rope of Freedom of Thoughts and Actions for all kinds of Worldly Activities.

Here I would like to share another side of boosting your self-esteem. If you believe on presence of Omnipresent God and Religion, and then on Luck and Prayers. Then you must have realized that every time you talk to “God Almighty” then you feel a ‘Spiritual Elevation’ and ‘Satisfaction’. Your Soul is lighter and you feel more comfort in facing even the bigger challenges of LIFE.

Only if you believe in Afterlife, and the fact that your actions, thoughts and social dealings are traced and judged at some other level. You will try to find bigger meaning to life and to solve grand equations of human joys and sorrows in this worldly life. It will automatically boost your trust to say Truth and to try to live with Real Boost in Self Esteem!!

My Favorite Quotes of Famous Philosophers and Mystics!

Favorite Quotes by Philosophers and Thinkers

• Don not be SAD, for GOD Sends the Hope in the Darkest Moments. The Heaviest Rain Comes from the Darkest Clouds – Rumi
• Never Lose HOPE My Dear Heart, Miracles Dwell in the Invisible – Rumi
• What You Seek is Seeking You – Rumi
• Yesterday I was Clever so I Wanted to Change the World, Today I am Wise so I am Changing Myself – Rumi
• The Quieter YOU Become the more Able Your are Able to Hear – Rumi
• Some Changes Look Negative on the Surface but Soon You will Realize that Space is Being Created in Your Life for Something New to Emerge – Eckhart Tolle
• Stress is Caused by being “Here” but Wanting to be “There” – Eckhart Tolle
• Realize Deeply that the PRESENT MOMENT is all You ever Have – Eckhart Tolle
• We Take Great Pains to Persuade Others that We are HAPPY than in to Think So Ourselves – Confucius
• The Superior Man is Modest in His Speech, but Exceeds in His Actions – Confucius
• Our Greatest Glory is not in Never Falling, but in Rising After Every Fall – Confucius
• Never Have I Dealt with Something More Difficult than My Own Soul, which Sometimes Helps ME and Sometimes Opposes Me – Imam Al-Ghazali
• Desires Make Slaves out of Kings, and Patience makes Kings out of Slaves – Imam Al-Ghazali
• Knowledge Exists Potentially in the Human SOUL like the Seed in the Soil; by Learning the Potential it Becomes Actual – Imam Al-Ghazali
• Don’t Waste Your Time with Explanations, People HEAR what they Want to Hear – Paulo Coelho
• Hide Your Craziness behind a Beautiful Smile – Paulo Colheo